Enough is enough...

This one is for the ladies to relate to, but for the fellas to help me understand. Ladies, have you ever had one of those guys in your life that act like they are numb to any kind of feelings or possibilities of a relationship, but will constantly try to communicate with you and spend time with you...and then when you get into an argument or a disagreement, THEY tell YOU to never speak to them again, but yet THEY are always the first ones to run back? What's up with that? What's the point of playing the hard role, if all you're going to do is soften up and come running back anyway? I've had a couple situations of the sort, and I must say that it doesn't make sense to me. If you're not going to be of some worth to my life, then please move on. You've made it clear that you're not interested in me in a relationship basis, so why waste my time?

For example, there was this one guy that I had been dealing with on and off for some time. It was clear that him and I did NOT get along and would never have a future. Notice the words, "on and off". Obviously, we'd stop talking for awhile, but then go back to where we were. Was this my fault? Maybe it was for giving in, but it was him who would always call me first after telling me that we were done. In fact, it happened recently--I was convinced we were done this time, but once again, he contacted me first. Luckily this time around (finally) I said, "fuck it"...I'm not dealing with him anymore because ENOUGH IS ENOUGH. Find someone else's time to play with.

It's always worse when you have feelings for that person because every time they leave, your heart is broken and you feel like your world is ending, but when they come back, you breathe a sigh of relief in hopes that you have one more chance to make things right. But now? Uh-uh...I think it's a fucking game. Whenever a guy wants to play those games with me, I treat it exactly as that: a GAME. I sit back and laugh and how much they're losing that game by coming back to me first...by giving in and calling after they've said they never want to speak to me again. I love it!

True, true, I know what the guys are thinking...that you only do it because you just think of us as a "booty call" or something of the sort. But is it really worth your time and effort to waste someone else's time when you could both be going your separate ways and finding someone that you really care about, or someone that really cares about you? Someone that you'll actually STAY with, and not keep going back and forth with? Or maybe it's because you really are feeling that girl but just don't want to admit that you've let your guard down--so you tell her to fuck off, knowing damn well that you want her to stay. I don't know...help me understand because ummm...all things must come to an end, especially if it wasn't going anywhere to begin with.